Only by admitting what we are can we get what we want
When I try to understand a person's motives, I play a little game. I assume the worst. What's the worst reason they could possibly have for saying what they say and doing what they do?
Sometimes the best way to baffle them is to make moves that have no purpose, or even seem to work against you. Remember that, Sansa, when you come to play the game. The only game, the Game of Thrones
Better to gamble on the man you know than the strangers you don't